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How To Make Hooking Up With Your "Ex" More
Thrilling Than It Ever Was Before!
By Craig Garber
Now I really have seen
everything.
The other day, I saw a television
show with a very curious premise: They found a good-old Southern boy who
was such a charmer, 6 of his ex-girlfriends (some, who had been flat-out
"dumped" by him) were willing to line themselves up in front of a camera
for 120 minutes, and go through various and sundry interviews, to see whether
or not they could pass muster with him, the second time around.
The one's who got dumped (again) were
heart-broken and their eyes swelled with tears. And the winner? You'd think
she was happy, but she was bawling her eyes out too.
So, what's all this got to do with
you making money?
Well, what about all your "ex's"?
Your "ex-customers" that is. You know,
people you've sold something to, but you haven't kept up a relationship
with?
In my article "The Most Profitable
Product In The World You Can Ever Sell", I talked about the different additional
(and insanely huge and cash-generating) information products you could offer
to your customers, either as part of their initial purchase, or on the
"back-end", after their first sale has been made.
And it got me thinking: I just finished
working with a client who has 2,000 people on his list (and at least he's
smart enough to capture his customer's information -- many business owners
aren't). He's been in business for 3 years at this particular location and
guess what?
After each one of these 2,000 customers
came into his store...
They Never Heard From Him Again!
Yep, he's never sent them
anything!
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Then this morning, I got off the phone
with a prospect looking to hire me to write some copy. I asked him how many
of his business opportunity products he's already sold.
His answer: "A little over
2,000."
While about 7 or 8 different thoughts
were racing through the back of my mind, about all the back-end products
he should be offering to these 2,000 people on a regular basis, I asked him
if he's stayed in touch with any of them.
His answer: "No. But I guess I should
have, right?"
Come here and listen very closely
to what I am about to say: NOT staying in touch with your existing customers
is...
A Cardinal Sin!
Do you know how much easier it is
to sell something to someone who's already lined your pockets with cash,
then it is to try and get someone to give you money the first time?
And without staying in touch with
your clients regularly, do you know what happens?
Well, like most things you're not
thinking about regularly, you become "yesterday's news" to them. And this
is...
Not Good!
Now maybe you feel "awkward" about
contacting someone just to try and sell them something, when you haven't
spoken to them in a while. (And you should.)
So what I'm going to do right now,
is show you a simple and easy way to get back in touch with your "ex" clients
and customers, so you're not seeming to be "pushy"... "offensive"... or more
to the point:
Using Them Just To Get Money!
Anyhow, without further adieu, here's
the letter I'd send them:
Wednesday, 11:18 a.m.
Plantation, Florida
Dear Gil,
A few days ago I was rummaging through
some papers scattered across the top of my desk, when suddenly I
stopped-dead-in-my-tracks, right where I was.
A thought came to me: I haven't heard
from you in a dog's age.
So I called out to my overworked assistant
Stella and I said "Hey Stella! What the heck ever happened to Gil
Stevens?
As far as I know Gil, you're still
alive and kicking. But because I hadn't heard from you in a while, I was
wondering, "What's going on with Gil?"
The answer's important, because right
now, I'm giving you a FREE "Daily Newspaper Retriever" that'll bring your
paper in from outside your house, every morning like clockwork, as part of
a limited-offer I've got going on.
What's this all about?
Here's the deal:
blah-blah-blah,
yakety-yakety-yakety...
Then you go on and talk about what
you're selling and give old Gil more benefits and reasons to buy from you
than he would've ever thought existed, in his wildest imagination.
And just in case you're confused,
the FREE "Daily Newspaper Retriever" is just something I made up to give
you as an example.
In your letter, obviously you put
in whatever you want.
You see, the thing is, if Gil had
been hearing from you consistently, since the day he first became familiar
with you, this wouldn't have been so difficult.
That's why you must stay in front
of your customers and prospects at least every month, more if it's
appropriate.
Anyway, the point is... if some sleazy
man-bait on TV can get his ex-girlfriends to come crawling around him like
wolves circling a wounded deer in the forest, an upstanding ethical
business-owner like yourself shouldn't have any problem doing the same thing
with your existing customers.
Provided...
You've done an outstanding job of
making them happy the first time around...
You've been staying in front of your
existing customers on a regular basis, giving them good solid quality information
and enriching their lives whenever you can... and...
You've actually got something to offer
them, that's worthwhile in the first place.
P.S. If you're doing these things,
you've got the makings of a sure-fire winner on your hands... each-and-every
time, and back-end sales won't ever be a problem for you.
About the author:
Craig Garber is America's Top
Direct-Response Copywriter. You'll find hundreds of marketing tips to increase
your sales, and his insanely popular FREE Unconventional and Irreverent Daily
Direct-Response Marketing Tips, on his website,
http://www.KingOfCopy.com
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become easier to deal with. Alas, being dumped is one of the crummiest situations
we mere mortals have to surmount.
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We've all been dumped or have been
the dumpee at once time in our relationship lifetimes. The following article
is a horror story depicting the importance of breaking free if it ever happens
to you.
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You've patiently waited for it. Hear
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I am sure that we have all been through
the nightmare of been dumped by our boyfriend or girlfriend. At times it
is something that we were expecting, however more often than not it comes
as a big shock. In this situation it is very hard to take, and in this article
I give free tips on how to cope in this situation.
How Soon
Should You Begin Dating After Getting Dumped
This is a very common problem for many
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it becomes difficult to decide.
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It's a sad fact of life, but at some
point in your life you will get dumped by a girlfriend. And, no guy likes
to get dumped, especially by someone you cared for and loved. But, love is
a two-way street. Both parties have to love and nurture a relationship to
keep it alive. It's no good to be involved in a one-way relationship with
a woman that you love and she does not love you back.
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ruin you. Get help today.
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Break-ups in relationships are never
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Screw It Up
Having a girlfriend can be a dangerous
thing. We become too dependent on our woman for our happiness, and then if
we get dumped, we find that we've all of a sudden lost our confidence. This
results in being without sex for many months, until we finally get a girlfriend
again, and... the cycle repeats. So to break this cycle, we need to REMAIN
the attractive guy, the alpha male. This article explains how.
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Reasons Why Inner Game Will Help Your Love Life
Before deciding to get my `mental house`
in order, with respect to relationships, over 2 years ago my inner game was
a mess. A gorgeous, intelligent girl just dumped me, and I even considered
finding any `ole` girl, even if below my standards, and getting married just
dumped me. After all the family had pressuring me anyway. Then I got realistic
and began researching to find out where I went wrong and why I felt so low
a man. Enter Inner Game.
Being
Dumped, Just Plain Sucks!
"Being Dumped" really is one of the
worst experiences, short of death that we, as humans are faced with in our
lives. They say that, death of a loved one is easier to learn to live with,
than a break-up , "Being Dumped" or rejection.
How
to Ease the Pain of a Breakup
Whether you do the dumping or you are the one who got dumped, breakups
are painful. If you initiated the breakup you may feel guilty, or question
that you made the right decision. If you were the one who got dumped you
may feel shocked, hurt, and angry. Breakups are painful for either
party.
How
To Make Hooking Up With Your "Ex" More Thrilling Than It Ever Was
Before!
Now I really have seen everything...
The other day, I saw a television show with a very curious premise: They
found a good-old Southern boy who was such a charmer, 6 of his ex-girlfriends
(some, who had been flat-out "dumped" by him) were willing to line themselves
up in front of a camera for 120 minutes, and go through various and sundry
interviews, to see whether or not they could pass muster with him, the second
time around...
Second
Time Around the Block
Divorce happens. I'm not going to debate
the causes or the moral and ethical implications of that here. Even if you're
the innocent one who stuck to your vows and got dumped anyway, you still
have ...
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Sometimes life experiences can be like
a lemon-flavored Tootsie Roll Pop. Hard and sour on the outside. Soft and
sweet on the inside. Take getting dumped in a relationship for instance.
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Revenge -
Serve It Cold!
Whether you caught him in bed with the local bimbo, dumped him for being
an uncaring twit or he's run off with a woman he met online, you're probably
feeling angry, resentful and wanting revenge. Rev...
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This simple formula will tell you if
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once he's satisfied his curiosity.
Breaking Relationships with
Women
It is a sad fact of life, but there
will be times when you have to end a relationship. You have to make some
tough choices in life and this is one of them. It's hard to dump someone.
Personally, I'd rather have a root canal.
How
to Dump Your Girlfriend
This week I want to talk about dumping
your girlfriend. Unfortunately a lot of relationships just don't work out.
And if you find yourself in a relationship that is going nowhere, it is best
to end it as quickly as possible. If you are convinced that you have lost
all your feelings for her, whatever you do, don't lead her own and stay in
the relationship just to have someone to be with or for sex.
How
to Decide When to End a Long-term Relationship
Relationships are among of the most
complex aspects of our lives, particularly long-term relationships such as
marriage. Your relationships can elevate you to new heights or drag you down
into the dumps. But what if you’re somewhere in the middle?
8
Valuable tips On How To Survive a Dumping
Unfortunately there is no magic formula
for surviving a dumping. However to find someone you want to spend your life
with, you have to move on and plan a realistic time scale to move forward.
Here's how...
Dumped? Get
Set for a New Life
We've all either been the dumper or
dumpee at some point in our life. The following article will help you mend
yourself and move forward as a better more desirable person.
How I
Got Dumped Via AIM
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