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Being Dumped, Just Plain Sucks!
By Dorothy Lafrinere
Today I received a question from a
guy. Here is what he said:
"Posted by Anonymous The last woman
I was involved with was quite full of herself. So then why did she dump
me?"
And my answer to him was this... "Posted
by Dorothy Hey there, sorry to hear about your being dumped. Not knowing
either of you, it is really hard to answer that question. There are many
reasons for people walking away from a relationship. It could have plain
worn out. Also they could have found someone else. Either way, it sucks,
and you have to deal with the pain, and learn to get on with your life. It
is a challenge, but it does make you aware, of what being human is all about.
There is a saying; "If it doesn`t kill you. it will only make you stronger."
Also I am a firm believer in: " Things do happen for a reason." Hang in there,
things will get better, if you let them. Take Care and thank you for sharing
that with me."
"Being Dumped" really is one of the
worst experiences, short of death that we, as humans are faced with in our
lives. They say that, death of a loved one is easier to learn to live with,
than a break-up , "Being Dumped" or rejection.
All of the above, tell us that we
are unacceptable to someone. We immediatley turn it into ourselves and that's
when the self-blame seed is sown. Through self-blame we begin to feel shame.
Shame is so painful, that no one talks about it or even wants to think about
it. Shame is the least identified emotion we as humans deal with, because
we are ashamed of our shame. Shame, is yet another negative emotion, that
captures and imprisons us in a pit of hell. It pulls us into a life of silence
and inactivity, lying and hiding our true fears. When we are rejected in
any situation, it is a true hit to our self-esteem. If we are weak in that
area, then our fall is going to be very hard. If we are strong in that area,
we will quickly become weak. I wrote this in a recent blog:
"When we first fall in love; What
is that saying, "Love is Blind"? Ha! Now that's funny, because it really
is blind. We trust so instantly and genuinely that we potentially set ourselves
up for the biggest fall in our lives. Why is that? Is it because we are so
driven by nature to want to trust someone? Or is trusting someone just a
happier, easier, way of life."
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So there it is, we as humans, live
to love and want to be loved. We are blinded by the romance of the word ~
LOVE~. We are made happy by the word~LOVE~, but we are also hurt by the word
~LOVE~. So why do we continually set ourselves up? We are gambling, and we
do not even know it. Or, is life simply just that, a gamble? The bottom line
is, no one wants to get "DUMPED", because it is not in our nature to know
how to accept it. How many of you have been, "DUMPED" and just knew that
your life had ended? You just knew that you will never see anything the same
again. Well, you were partly correct there. It is like any other change in
our lives. Things will be different than we are use to. Your life has definitely
not ended. Yes, your partnership has ended with a person, and maybe it was
not expected, but nor are hurricanes or wars. We deal with it all, we have
to. We chose to survive. Think of it as starting a new life. Newness is positive
and healthy. Look at things differently, and embrace all that newness. Do
not fear it. "BEING DUMPED", is just another chapter in your book of
life.
If you had no chapters, think how
dull your book would be. Now, you can open your self to another chapter,
and believe me, there are many. If you spend the rest of your life wondering
all the "WHY`S", just think, you have wasted even more of your precious time
on something that has chosen another road. As for the fact that a person
is, full of themselves, that really has nothing to do with the "Why's" of
"Being Dumped". Even the most confident people close doors on relationships.
They in fact, have more courage to do so than a person of less confidence,
or being less full of themselves, so to speak. Who Knows? All we know is
that the decision has been made and you as a person, with intelligence, must
turn the page. Getting stuck in that feeling just makes therapists rich.
(wink)
Life offers many, many humps and bumps.
We trip and fall, over and over again. The trick is to get real good at picking
yourself up and dusting off the old dirt. This is life. I told my daughter,
when she was struck by her first cupids arrow, "If you are going to get
emotionally involved, be prepared to get emotionally uninvolved." It's life!
One very important thing we must remember; when we are at the bottom and
we feel we are worthless and will never ever TRUST again, it's is a nothing
more than a human emotion. We know it as doubt. We can over come doubt very
easily. Look in the mirror, and tell yourself, that you are UNIQUE, and you
are going to make happiness your goal. You must risk all the falls to reach
that goal. Letting yourself believe that you are deserving of another
relationship is truly a risk, again another gamble. But what is life without
a little risk? We have the power to overcome our negative self. We just need
to DO IT!!
"Self doubt is not an option!
Our doubts are traitors and make us
lose the good we often might gain by fearing attempt."
About the author:
Dorothy
http://www.womensselfesteem.com
http://www.justblogme.com/dorothy
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than a break-up , "Being Dumped" or rejection.
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Whether you do the dumping or you are the one who got dumped, breakups
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found a good-old Southern boy who was such a charmer, 6 of his ex-girlfriends
(some, who had been flat-out "dumped" by him) were willing to line themselves
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